I am on Fetlife daily, or almost daily.

I still think of LJ as a place to really write, or post articles or reference material on my fetishes or perv life, it's just that mostly I haven't had anything new to share or write about, that I haven't already mentioned.

Just a few small things since I last posted anything...

I found that the sex. ( Read more... )

Commitment.

Still in a sexless marriage. Zero sex for the year 2014. I accept it. I continue to go to bed as a place to read, watch TV, or sleep. I ignore any hints from her that she might want sex. It's too late, been going on too long, for that hurt of being in the sexless marriage to forgive/resume.

(Thankfully I still have the internet for ( Read more... )

I have gone through the stages of grief on having a sexless marriage to arrive at Acceptance.

I now 'accept' to just share a bed, and do not ever have expectations of having sex with my wife. Bed is where TV is watched, or reading a book, or sleeping. Nothing more.

I no longer initiate, ask, or ever bring up the topic of us having sex.

I am ( Read more... )

Existing in what I consider to be a sexless marriage.

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexless_marriage

I have a family. Lovely kids. So on that, I guess I made a good choice in who I got married to.

My wife desired kids too. And she is a good mother, making sure the kids do all positive kids things we can afford:

cub scouts
girl scouts
ballet class
swimming lessons
...and so on
So for that, I made and have chosen 'the good outweighs the bad' for ( Read more... )

2012 - Marital sexual frequency

1. 2012-12-26

2. 2012-10-31

3. 2012-08-22

4. 2012-08-15

5. 2012-08-13

6. 2012-07-29

7. 2012-07-24

8. 2012-06-21

9. 2012-05-22

10. 2012-05-11

...yep, that's it: Only 10 acts of sex with the wife for the entire year.

Just finished watching "Kissing Jessica Stein" via Netflix online.

Wow, I strongly relate to the situation of the two main characters. I see myself as the "Helen Cooper" character, and my wife as the "Jessica Stein" character.

I am the one that is very sexual, wants passion, fucking just for fucking's sake, sexual risks... all of it.

I see my wife as ( Read more... )

My low sex frequency marriage is fucking with my self esteem this morning ( Read more... )

Sexless marriage. No fun ( Read more... )

Got her roses and a nice card.

Went to work.

Went out to a fun computer club evening that night.

Came home, she was already asleep.

Sexless Valentine's Day. Not a surprise.